You have to make the decision as to what you want your home and your children to have in that home. Log in or sign up in seconds. Are you going to keep the sabbath holy as a family, or is he going to take the kids out for pizza after church, leaving you home to observe alone. Maybe about a year ago. The important thing is doing it together. Even if the church believes a bunch of crazy nonsense, and she believes it too, I still really like her and would like to see whether we can have some good intellectual conversations about this stuff. Now, lest you look at this all and say, "sheesh, go to counseling. Love the way you normalize the challenges of being married.




As these are probably the two most important things to you, it will most likely, be a very difficult decisionвfollow your heart and the spirit. You can't gamble on her seeing Mormonism for the shit show that it is. I can accept her, and she's told me she can accept me The challenging part for me now is the idea of putting my kids through the brainwashing. The long antisocial hours often leave me feeling lonely, and when he is home he is so tired.
The point to this story is that when he had any free time he wanted to spend it with me. A quiet, hard working immigrant but dedicated and faithful. If your relationship is moving forward, or she suggests doing something more expensive, it is not inappropriate for her to help pay as well. Dude just to summarize what I think is the majority of the comments. I volunteer every week, I put others before myself, etc.
Apr 4, 0. You will join the church. Yes, talk talk talk about everything yoiu can think of, but beyond that I would suggest pre-marital counseling from people knowledgeable in each tradition at play this will probably take two different counselors, who might be faith-based. Her goal is to make you mormon.