She's likely openly telling her family that it's okay he's not Mormon because she's going to get him baptized. Eternity is a long time. It's gonna end regardless not trying to be a dick, but that is what is going to happen eventuallyso be smart and cut your losses before it gets harder. I know that sounds cold but if you train under stress for that many years and become a member of a masochistic not the sexual context fraternity like that of surgical residents, then you more easily shut out anything that might break down those walls.
A lot of people will tell you to run but if she is in her late 20s most Mormon guys her age are married. I moved out of sate to be with him. We always went every Sunday, had family prayer and scripture reading, etc. The Church encourages people to be a good influence on one another, and she will probably expect you to dress well for her. Will he be happy knowing that you are giving up something of incredible importance to you. We can't tell you that. We're generally very happy when we're together, but like everyone else, it isn't always easy to find the time between his schedule and mine. This makes them overwhelmingly successful wives and mothers. I love him so much, but it's torture spending so much time without him.
There are other rewards, like him being available during the week or on odd days when other dads aren't, and knowing that we don't have to struggle financially as many of our friends do in this tough economy. Are you going to keep the sabbath holy as a family, or is he going to take the kids out for pizza after church, leaving you home to observe alone. Hi, like others I've read a lot of the posts but still have a few questions. He expects perfect children who ,"will all become doctors. I've told him multiple times that I don't care how much money he'll make, but one of his big things is that he wants to provide for me and his family in the future, with that being one of his main motivators. I know, I know, this is the last thing you want to hear.
You'll definitely need antidepressants. This is tough enough when the kids are babies, but when they're older - teenagers - you'll get to tackle all of the hormone-fueled angst, drama, school difficulties, homework, school activities, and be the scapegoat when the kids get mad at you. Obviously don't make any commitments further in the relationship because you do not want to be married into an insane orthodox LDS family because it will cause alot of troubles. Do you think I need to have some sort of commitment from him before I can make that decision. I noticed that in Asia they care much more about language skills than here. As teaching staff, he still works more hours than the residents on average and pulls call about twice a week. I chose to move on. Break it off amicably now, before it gets too difficult. I know in terms of so many things as well as financial stability choosing another path is very uncertain, we would also have the student loans we would have to pay back. When you come home do you just want to be alone.