I've read through some stuff there and it all seems pretty tame so far. That being sais, just be honest. If your relationship is moving forward, or she suggests doing something more expensive, it is not inappropriate for her to help pay as well. If it's true, it'll come out of the criticism looking better. I was actually just talking to my husband about that the other day, at first he said that it depressed him when I said that, but really, it helps. If this is the case, she definitely can be reprogrammed and awakened. Just let things keep going. I am not a doctor's wife so I won't say I understand, but I will give you a virtual hug.
My life may not be as stressful as that of a medical resident or a doctor, but I do often spend upward of 70 - 80 hours per week working. Patriarchal leadership is something that most women in the world valued until recently, but it is still a chief value with Mormons. If you and she are sealed in a Mormon temple, your children will be can be sealed to you. My brother is in medical school, and many of my friends are in their clerkship or already doing their residencies. If you can, do it now. I have many friends and members of my family who married within the church and later divorced. He took out his bad moods on everyone. Might be worth working through the missionary lessons and CES letter to see if they can agree at least to disagree. Is it wrong not to.
When you are a man married to a female doctor. I've been in a similar situation before. Sadly, I'm not sure at this point. I decided that if the church taught the general principle that couples should be married in the temple and that was not possible for me if I married this girlthen I should see if my choice would be an exception to the rule. No hard feelings, is not his fault, I said yes when he proposed based on the life wee had at that time, my fault for not doing some re search and find out how is really when you are a register or in the training programme. Really, I'm interested in this too. It works, though, because I know that his beliefs have great worth. Sorry if I gave that impression. Hey, thanks for the info.
If you have children how will they be raised. However, I'm going to show him your post tonight and hopefully he will agree that it's worth a try. And by joining I mean become just as fanatic in it as she is All her life she's been taught that she needs to be married in a Mormon temple Wife left when I came out If her family are all Traditional Believing Mormons, they will try to convert you. We try to make this place a little better than we found it. If you stay together l, you are going to have to remind her of that commitment. If I had one thing to add, mixed race marriages are quite similar. I'm glad you both have found a way to get past the incredible forces that are working against you.