Thank you for this blog. Our communication is almost gone to none, he needs a lot a lot of alone time to achieve his career while i am really worried that how much longer i can live like this!!. Having married over the course of my life not one but two wonderful non-Mormon men one Jewish and one low-church ProtestantI can say that my own spirituality has been profoundly deepened and enriched by the perspective that these two God-fearing and spiritually mature people offered me, and by my participation in the observances of their traditions. Sooo, I guess my question is Did I dodge a bullet or do new residents go crazy, but eventually come back to their senses. Why would you behave any different now. Honestly, it isn't her fault. I am exhausted from giving so much of me and I never got much back. I've moved to be with him for med school, then we moved again for residency and just moved again for fellowship.
If he has to work late call a girlfriend or paint a picture. Husband has affair with me, after telling me that he and his wife have grown apart, and we were together for five years. That of course does not mean all eternal marriages should have been entered into or will succeed.
I think the most important thing is to bring up the issues as questions rather than points as why she's wrong. If you really care and think this is the lifestyle you wanted then go ahead. He expects gourmet meals and an immaculate house. But I do still largely consider us an interfaith couple.
If you marry him, you are committing to accepting him without the church and all that this entails. She might want to follow the 'virgin until marriage' part, or she may personally decide to forego following that in secret. Ask her on dates. On the other hand, if you believe God is bigger than we can imagine, and is not constrained by religious dogma, you have as good a chance as any at a happy, thriving relationship. You should start raising CES letter issues with her and see how she handles it. I hope that you have left him at this point, and that you are happy.