That's my two cents. But he told me that he needs a wife who could take care of him, kids and house. Tips Mormon girls are much like other girls their age, in that they want guys to respect them and treat them well. I give input into our activities for dates, and this works out well since we're very compatible and like spending leisure time the same way. I married my husband 11 years ago, when he was an undergrad student.
Best wishes in whatever you decide. Plan on her family trying to torpedo your relationship if you don't convert. Why prophets are awesome. Better to now what you're going into in a relationship with a doctor or would-be-doctor. I married outside the church and have no regrets. At that point we quit going and focused on her goals and family bonding. You just need to figure out where your girlfriend is. They seriously have movies about it. Did you ask him to drop you off and he refused, or were you hoping he'd think of it himself. You're walking into a den of crazy, tbm bishop's daughter, I hate to say it but you should really be contemplative about what you're stepping into.
These same principles have helped build strong, successful religious communities for thousands of years. We make time for each other every chance we get which sometimes is during the noon hour for lunch. Before that, you are encouraged to date, but not exclusively. I do nearly all of the parenting fortunately we only have one child -- we both agree that this lifestyle is too demanding for more and find that my husband's crazy hours and the energy drain of the job make me yearn to connect with other wives that relate. Consider also the evolving perspective of the potential husband. Because people who have problems with interfaith families must needs shortly become a thing of the past.
I hope this will change in the future - it would be difficult living a lifestyle like this in the long run. The closet is deep though I think that's seriously generalizing. The independent work is just as important as the work we do as a couple.