My family says I should leave him…. Better than freezing up and avoiding them altogether. Next year we are getting married but I already see a tough life ahead of me. I hate to be so undiplomatic, but it will always create friction in your life to have this level of religious difference.
I feel like I make a lot of sacrifices to see him and try to make it as convenient as possible for him, which means planning ahead and changing my schedule around sometimes. He knows that is a possibility. Then the girl decided still not to date him after all.
It all depends on the girl. I appreciate your honest, and I really like the way you phrased things, particularly this sentence: Thank you for your comments. Breaking up with someone solely because of religion is something people condemn alot on this sub when its a Mormon breaking it off with a non Mormon, but if floats both ways. We need to get over ourselves and start loving each other how the Lord intended.
And there's a story I'm going to look again for too. His single doctor friends have so much more time and money to spend on lavish overseas holidays and recreational activities, while every spare moment the husband has to spend at home, helping with the children and all the responsibilities that entails. But my relationship with him is worth this small sacrifice. I completely relate to all you've written; many of us have come to see Mormonism for what it is, and the severe damage it does to human brains.