But it is luck of the draw. Why would you behave any different now. There are times where u will go to events, parties And even spending holidays without him. My spouse really is the most important and I would be nothing without them. As Joanne mentioned, should you marry interfaith, you will have lots of help from fellow ward members on converting your spouse.
That being said, we have built something beautiful and good, have modeled loving responsibility and accountability to our kids, and I am certain I am with the man God chose for me. From a guy's perspective, I was dating a doctor who was going through her final exams to become a registered specialist. This happened to me, and it took me forever to get out of the cult. I'm so glad to have found this blog. I have heard for ten years that my spouse is "second fiddle.
I'm on the same page as you. I was lucky with my TBM. She asked me to read that site and write down questions. Children thrive on clarity and consistency.
I'm really glad to hear a few of you have stories of happy interfaith relationships, or leaving the church together, so there's always a chance. I am about to get into a relationship with a doctor. I know that when we have children I will be doing most of the work. Love in Different Languages. I decided to sort of play along because she was amazing and I didn't believe some of the things she was telling me she actually believed.