But from what you said, this girl doesn't sound like she is going to be content to have a marriage for time only. I work full time as well and have supported him throughout med school. My husband is an amazing human being and an international cardiologist. The church will be in your bedroom, finances, and all your decisions. Learn more about the LDS Church. It works, though, because I know that his beliefs have great worth. So, guess whatв We stopped. My wife told me she does not want to know if the church is false, so I don't pressure her. I now think that 2 is the only reasonable choice to make, even as a man в staying single my whole life в until and unless I find the woman whom I cannot live without, the woman who is a true companion to me.
Look, as a shelia, its no different from a bloke. Trust me, I too tried to make it work with my very Mormon also returned missionary ex-girlfriend. Do you see yourself marrying this person if marriage is something you are interested in for the future. This lack of inclusion within the general society makes them socially awkward, especially around men.
Consider a mix of activities that are inexpensive, and allow you to talk and learn about one another. So we took the kids camping. She is a returned missionary, and won't Marry you if you want to stay atheist. You need to repent and change.
It's also possible that deep down she's like many of us here, and her shelf will break and she'll want out. You can't gamble on her seeing Mormonism for the shit show that it is. She is showing a common attitude of distrust for "anti-mormon" material. He is in his mid-thirties and is starting later than most residents.