When I talk to him about this he seems to agree that he doesn't like the person he's becoming and doesn't look forward to a career in medicine, but says he can't leave medicine. All you have to do is be honest about your username here and you'll never see her again. Be open and talk about your ideals. This guy was orbiting so strongly that he changed his religion before they were even dating. Obviously don't make any commitments further in the relationship because you do not want to be married into an insane orthodox LDS family because it will cause alot of troubles. The closet is deep though I think that's seriously generalizing.
That's probably true, and that would be a great thing for her, but they wouldn't see it that way. If you talk to him about it, and he cares about your relationship enough, the two of you will probably be able to find something that works for both of you. Until our marriage, I was living a care free life when I would do things as I please. She converts to your religion. But, as soon as the marriage happened, the Mormon spouse goes full on Orthodox and expects the non Mormon to comply.
BUT it could easily have gone the other way. Going back in time, it was never encouraged for people to marry outside their faith and this covered most christian religions in the United States. I keep busy with my own activities, but it becomes really hard to have a date night. Find someone who isn't part of a cult. I disagree with the doctrines and practices of the LDS church. Is your spouse willing to give you up on Sundays, and half your weeknights. He's currently working in the ER and waiting to start his residency. I know what they really make, and what they really spend.
But we only really get time together in the summer. I just wanted to let SN and AD know that, if you decide to choose this path, you are not alone. He is super busy, and is learning all he can about lifesaving methods, and they are killing him at the hospital right now. This was hugely disappointing for him and created some very tense times. He will have to be okay with being thought not good enough to help in circumstances in which you believe that priesthood power is needed.