I like to think that what you said really resonated with her. While we have a good marriage but he has no idea how lonely I am for my him. She didn't tell anyone because her own lack self worth and shame petrified her to do anything about it. Like you, I didn't want to stress him out by giving him some sort of ultimatum or demands. Although I do want a long term relationship and to eventually start a family I am NOT going to give up my dream of becoming a physician. The point made was that a parallel can be drawn between interfaith and interracial marriages.
She hasn't submitted the paperwork yet but I have no doubt that she will do this eventually. Now I feel sadness for losing out because of fear, and a cult mindset. One thing that has helped my husband and I was a marriage class we joke that it was more like marriage therapy when we had only been married two years. It hurts me the most when my kids ask me why they haven't see daddy in days. And unless they are total cretins your ward members will love him too. I agree with what you and so many of the other replies have said: Listen with an open heart and curiosity. Getting a Date In other languages: Thanks to all authors for creating a page that has been read 85, times. Why would you behave any different now.
And on the other hand the thought of having to go through these residency years ahead haunts me. Now I look at his job and his schedule and his tiredness as a part of both of our lives, rather than something that is just his life that I have to deal with. Or the links, in that first vision one. I found that it worked just as well. We have been married 16 years and we got married during the week off in between his first and second year of medical school. You have to choose what's right for you, but you have to figure it out.
As my husband learns about Mormonism I get to see it through his fresh eyes. I agree she should be able to watch a movie or do her own research. There are so many potential problems they would fill a book. I just wanted to let SN and AD know that, if you decide to choose this path, you are not alone. Her goal is to make you mormon. The point made was that a parallel can be drawn between interfaith and interracial marriages. I was going to be having leftovers of everything; time, energy, etc. You guys have very thick skin. The fact she's dating you while you aren't a Mormon is at least a sign of hope. LDS theology heavily promotes the idea that marriage and family are an important source of happiness in this life, not just the next.
