That is a reality you can't change. I am actually tired of the "excuse" that his work is so important or it's a calling. It is a demanding role being a wife to any man who works and has his own ambitions in the working world. I thought she would grow out of it. I can deal with the hours its when he comes home and is so burnt out it kills me. I married a NOMO after a lengthy temple marriage and divorce. Nobody has prepared her for one, definitely haven't prepared her for a healthy physical relationship.
He knows how I feel about spending time together. What's not to like about being a doctor's wife. When he comes home he's so exhausted and just wants to veg out and this leaves me alone again. However, I'm going to show him your post tonight and hopefully he will agree that it's worth a try. This is wonderful and in accordance with the desires of a loving Father in Heaven, but it can turn a marriage on its ear, if the spouse is unprepared. They value femininity, motherhood, and masculinity in men. But she understands that I am committed to the Gospel, and will never leave it either.
I wish you the best. Otherwise her family will likely feel incomplete to her. I feel for you. If your spouse thinks 8 is too young to get baptized, are you all right with waiting until they are older.
Ok, so what concerns do you have about the biggest difference of allвwhen your child brings home a potential mate of a completely different gender. They will teach the girls that sex is bad and wrong, which is something they will have trouble putting behind them when they eventually do get married. There is no question that God loves all of His children, and that obviously includes non-members. But she probably is more in love with the idea of you, than with you. And you seem like a good person. All's well that ends well A guy named, "Lovable Luciferian" is dating a Mormon Chick.