True Believer Mos base their actions on a set of priorities that make no sense to Nomos. I suggest you develop a busy calender so you'll be occupied because you'll get dizzy thinking in circles. Although I do want a long term relationship and to eventually start a family I am NOT going to give up my dream of becoming a physician. As Joanne mentioned, should you marry interfaith, you will have lots of help from fellow ward members on converting your spouse. My nonmember husband and I have been married for almost 18 years. We have known each other for many years. But now, in addition to being a primary spouse, I'm also the primary parent. He also brought up issues with the church when we discussed religion so slowly he brought to light some disturbing facts and even though I would have denied it, it got to me.
But he feels I need to stick to one career and be content. On the other hand lol handshe may fall into tearing guilt and leave you immediately. Good luck to both of you on working this out, and if you decide that interfaith marriage is something you can handle and your gentlemen turn out to be the right men for you, then welcome to the club. Hence the suspicious quotes around "adequately.
Thanks for adding your experiences. I chose to move on. But my relationship with him is worth this small sacrifice. When I talk to him about this he seems to agree that he doesn't like the person he's becoming and doesn't look forward to a career in medicine, but says he can't leave medicine. Yet another reason I respect doctors so much-their emotional strength. In fact, you likely will meet a few. All the other stuffв is crap. Nothing fixed that issue in me as fast as being almost inseparably bound to a woman that pushed back and kicked screaming against the pricks every time I wanted to make some sort of spiritual effort. Harmony will prevail if the husband appreciates the value of church service and attendance. I married a NOMO after a lengthy temple marriage and divorce.
When you mix cultural groups you increase the difficulty. I just wanted to tell you that I am grateful for your words!. Also not one Nickel will be tithed out of any shared funds. My family says I should leave him…. Or should I just run and avoid a lifetime of heartbreak. True Believer Mos base their actions on a set of priorities that make no sense to Nomos. It's almost like I feel as though I have to watch what I say at all times especially when he has residents calling him for various things, might be on call that night, and has to be at the OR by 5: When I myself was interning in my profession, the girl I interned with had married her boyfriend who is also a specialist earlier that year.