M so happy that I found this blog. We feel good about our choices, but know it might not be the right path for everyone. I'm sorry this was so longwinded and not really an answer to your questions.
Children thrive on clarity and consistency. You've made good points about not bringing up the CES letter or anything that could be called "anti-mormon. In the meantime, she will probably view you as being less than a Mormon man who is a faithful priesthood holder. Break up with her. You can watch them all in about a half an hour and you'll know almost everything you need to know. And the fact that he didn't respond for two days was confirmation for myself that I did the right thing. However, be careful to not ask something that may offend your date.
Anonymous, you are right. As you can see Also, the fact that she served a mission is evidence of her dedication to the religion. I have been a doctor's wife for 1 year now and we've been together for 7 years. This is a reply to all. Follow your heart and live life with no regrets. Well, the thing is he knows exactly how I feel and he has offered to give it all up. He has changed a lot throughout this process, but I don't know what he will be like once we are finished. I find that one of the most important things is to make sure you have a support system, whether they are other doc wives, family or friends. He has changed so much over the years and is very impatient with the kids. Both independent and had the same life goals, family life plans etc.
Will you be open to me teaching my children my athiest point of view. I can say this. Oh, and remember LDS girls are usually good at leading guys on with potential sex to get guys to agree to what they want join the church. Anyway, before you marry you should work out anything hypothetical that might come up in the future. She may never join the join the church. Finding a person with whom your wavelength matches, and around whom you feel you can just be yourself, talk about anything, and not be worried about being judged, is not as easy as the romantic movies and TV soaps make it out to be. It is nice to hear that I am not alone, and that we can do it. I prayed about whether to marry this man, and I felt and still feel strongly that it was right for me. Go on dates on days other than Sunday. She likely believes that her time as a missionary was preparation for marriage.